The law of attraction : “Attraction, is not a choice.”
Whenever we travel, we tend to stare at people. I also belong to the lot and do get stares from people. Mostly gals. Now don’t think I am conceited. I am not a looker, but I am not bad either.
Have you seen the way guys stare?
Some guys stare because they don’t know what else to do.
Some guys do stare. It's like they are given licence to stare if a woman is alone.
Some stare to clear self doubt as they definitely don’t know how to make a move, and they just assume that by staring at gals, they’d be able to hold their attention long enough to feel good about themselves.
Some stare turns into grand story...they can always tell a friend later, “Hey dude, guess what? There was this chick down the street, and we had a moment! Both of us were just staring at each other like the damn world had stopped revolving! Cool, huh?”
Sometimes there are lewd stares. I hate it.
Normally when guys stare they expect girl to flutter and lower her eye lids and not look back...what if she stares back...Long and hard.
I am a shy person....generally shy but due to over exposure to a hectic lifestyle and constantly meeting new people, I somehow changed from shy to being businesslike. I know you expected to see the word friendly. I am not. I am generally businesslike meaning I don't go all fake and say, hey, hi, pleased to meet u, you looking great bla bla bla. I nod, I smile, I ask how are you? I ask about their background, work or something related if I know them well. I become friendly if I really like them. Now that's not a forced feeling. It comes.....Automatically.
I just realised I wrote half a post without actually writing what I wanted to write in the first place. That's a few tenses for write in one sentence. Wrote. Writing. Write.
Back to my topic now. I take notice of good looking girls. Hey, who doesn't? And I look. Not stare. I look when they are not looking. Just little glances. Now now now, I can almost see you shaking your head right and left. I know you were not expecting this from me. I just look. Little harmless looks.
Back to my topic now. I take notice of good looking girls. Hey, who doesn't? And I look. Not stare. I look when they are not looking. Just little glances. Now now now, I can almost see you shaking your head right and left. I know you were not expecting this from me. I just look. Little harmless looks.
But it got me thinking lately. People say there is nothing wrong in looking. You are just attracted to beautiful things, I mean girls. Isn't that wrong? People commit sins because of attraction. That's the main stepping stone. You get hooked on attraction, there's nothing else to stop you.
I asked myself this question the other day. What if someone I really really think is good looking asks me out on a date? What would I say? Yes? No? Sorry? Maybe?
I should control my own law of attraction. There's only one person worth my attraction...No one else. No tiny looks. No sly glances. This law applies to all except Parineeti (the actress). If she walks up to me and asks me out, I'll go all over and since the probability of seeing her in person and the probability of her asking me out on a date are highly unlikely to happen, I'm safe from living in sin.
