Sometimes you are in love with someone and love someone else !!!

Love happens only once....Rest is LIFE....does this really hold with everyone...is it like love won't repeat again ever???

There must be some realism in the above statement as SRK also says "Hum jeetey ek baar hai martey ek baar hai Pyaar bhi ek hi baar kartey hai".... But do we really fall in love once?

I too agree and accept the above stated theory but am perplexed of now don't we always say Love is unconditional...unbounded and this lead to a different genre of discussion....Can we be in love with two people at the same time.

I may sound like a psychopath but don't one agree that Love is the only thing in the world that one can share and share again, without ever having the size of the parts decreasing....

Love is having feelings for one and is it like if we truly have feelings of love for one person, then won't possibly share those feelings with another...and if we do, that obviously means we must not have loved the other person, or don't anymore....can't we have feelings of love for two at the same time??

It's like saying that we cannot hate more than one person at a time. Being with someone does not somehow prevent our brain from dousing itself in love-chemicals over someone else. Human feelings know no such rules or boundaries, so loving Person A and wearing a lovable ring for them does not inoculate you against loving Person B.

It's not love it's Confusion one of my friend told me.....the signs of love are not always easy to recognize...when one can know that he/she has been smitten in love (again...again)....how to distinguish between crush, infatuation, attraction, care, likeness and LOVE?
Are you married but still in love with first love....I don't think anyone ever forgets their first love!!!

Love happens....and am not able to understand the chemistry and physics of the most important biological phenomenon.....LOVE !!!

To Be Continued....

Scorpion's WEB

There are times in my life when right things goes wrong way , there are times in my life when wrong things goes right way and then at times right things goes right ways.

Life is a roller-coaster filled with many exciting twists and turns….there is a curious emotion wombing up always.

Hop off the straight and narrow whenever I can and then take a U-turn whenever I want…the unreachable becomes reachable, the unavailable becomes available, the unattainable….attainable whenever I want.

Why am I unsatisfied of BEING??

Now and then I try to find an answer but it always results in a conflict…what is valid…what is right…what is rational…conflict as whom to follow…whom to rely…whom to believe…Conflict between Heart and Mind.

There are times when my heart says something and mind else and at times my mind says something and heart else. I don’t know why these both can’t go in one pace.

Pondered on it and realized one way or other both are right at there place….BUT which way to go?? Heart is about feeling…its pious…says what it feels. Mind is all about logic…applies brains...goes with pros and cons and then answers. The same voice which tells you to act today, is the same voice that ridicules you later for making that choice.

Sometime or other everyone feels this conflict between what we want to do (our heart) and what we feel is practical (our mind) but ignores and follow one of them. I had been in endless pursuit of finding the answer (of conflict)…and I don’t want to be in any longer!!!

Never ask Her....

Bet on anything and woman of this age will give you a run for money, they are competitive as anyone else on the planet and the way world is going ahead they are fast catching ahead in the race. Only one word which makes any woman fumbling is “Her age”, I have grown up with cardinal rule No. 1--Never ask a woman her age.

Ask a woman’s age and it makes them feel like they are in a race--a race where there are no rules but plenty of unwritten measures like wrinkles, white hair, obesity and above all looks. I haven’t taken up chance of asking anyone's age!! Have you ever seen a woman telling her age? When she did, and if you didn't reply, "Girl, you look good," she would look at you strange. Yeah today’s woman are more scared of their looks then the other side effects of ageing like marriage and kids.

The aspiration of women to look young is not a new phenomenon then why this sudden realization and outcry over ageing. Few days back I was watching a television program and the expert commented that women should dress younger and they will not only look younger, they will feel younger too. Wow what a simple solution to the most complex problem. Are they satisfied with this? Be it television/magazine BEFORE and AFTER advertisement has been painted all over but no one is going to buy it whole heartedly.

In contrast Men believe “Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter” and when they get gray hair, they consider it sexy and distinguished while woman on the other hand rinse it with rainbow colors. Men consider potbelly as a playground while women aspire to have Size 0. Wrinkles add to the macho effect of men “Wrinkle brings on Dimple/s” while it add on extra monthly budget on cosmetic (anti-ageing) for women.

Bottom line is that Men lives for wild moments while Women still has a hard time saying to the world that I am (blank)-3 years old. I am perplexed who knows ageing can be a bigger virus than Cancer for some :-)



To be Continued....

Tact - is it what I am missing ??

I love to speak my mind, Even when it could be straight and harsh… Although I DO know when is the right time, and when I should hold my tongue.. I usually never speak rudely to hurt someone personally it just ends up that way.. If someone verbally attacks me first then its game on, there is no holding back.. I do feel bad when I truly hurt or affect someone with my words because I know they can be harsh and bitter, yet the only time I actually feel sorry is when I’ve hurt someone I love!!

As the days pass by I do realize in this bitchy world people tend to take your words in a wrong way…remember the one you rely the most, often tends to be the one who bitch about you the most. Its tough to decode and decide what to do join the bitchy club or be you (the real you)…the one who speak what he feel, what he think, whatever is his opinion puts in front – a neutral outlook for any/everything need not be true not required to be correct…just his view/s!!!

Something strange came through my mind I am missing Chanakya’s kutniti…need to learn...learn tact, we do have to learn it sometime in our lives. Some people pick up on it as children others of us take longer…is this the way I should change from now…be me or need to reform that is one thing I am still perplexed…few things are not so straight having a Right or Left path ways attached to it …being so frank and honest do result in severe repercussion in life :(