Tact - is it what I am missing ??

I love to speak my mind, Even when it could be straight and harsh… Although I DO know when is the right time, and when I should hold my tongue.. I usually never speak rudely to hurt someone personally it just ends up that way.. If someone verbally attacks me first then its game on, there is no holding back.. I do feel bad when I truly hurt or affect someone with my words because I know they can be harsh and bitter, yet the only time I actually feel sorry is when I’ve hurt someone I love!!

As the days pass by I do realize in this bitchy world people tend to take your words in a wrong way…remember the one you rely the most, often tends to be the one who bitch about you the most. Its tough to decode and decide what to do join the bitchy club or be you (the real you)…the one who speak what he feel, what he think, whatever is his opinion puts in front – a neutral outlook for any/everything need not be true not required to be correct…just his view/s!!!

Something strange came through my mind I am missing Chanakya’s kutniti…need to learn...learn tact, we do have to learn it sometime in our lives. Some people pick up on it as children others of us take longer…is this the way I should change from now…be me or need to reform that is one thing I am still perplexed…few things are not so straight having a Right or Left path ways attached to it …being so frank and honest do result in severe repercussion in life :(